Happiness
Growing up I wanted nothing to do with marriage and kids. Based on the unhappy lives I saw in most of the married women I knew, and the discontent I […]
Being Courageous About Fear
“You can protect yourself from a thief by locking valuables away. You can protect yourself from physical harm by taking self defense classes. But there is absolutely no way to […]
Do You See Yourself, My Sista?
There is a woman I know (and by “know” I mean that we travel in the same social circles, have had brief chats at events, are social media friends and […]
MIA From VSB Because I Didn’t Trust
There is a meme circulating that asks, “Without saying your name or profession, who are you?” On the scale of deep shit; that’s an elephant manure-sized question. Pause for a […]
Resetting Your Compass: Becoming the Captain of Your Life
I’m grown. Hell, my kids think I’m downright old. I’ve got more than 20 years of experience in this adulthood gig. So one would think that I would have things […]