Being Soft is a Luxury

“Girl, whatchoo betta do is get something in that head,” my mother would scold me whenever I expressed concern about anything she deemed silly (boys, girl drama, the latest fashion […]

GET YO HAPPY, SIS!

Sis, Happiness is meant for you. Yes, you. Have you ever even considered it?  Have you ever allowed yourself to ask, “what would make me happy?”  Or do you, like […]

I’m Coming Out!

Being born Black was my first and greatest blessing; fully embracing that blessing has been my greatest journey. December 14th, nineteen-none-of-your-business, I was born to two, “woke, Black-is-beautiful, I marched […]

Being Jay

Part 1 It is as if Beautiful was always there, a bud inside my soil; that blossomed when he first made love to me.  That night, and the next day, […]